Waiting for Superman – Guest Post Review

I posted my thoughts on SeattleMomBlogs.com earlier this year after watching the new documentary Waiting for Superman at the Seattle International Film Festival. When Washington Virtual Academies (WAVA) offered me passes to see it this month during its theatrical release, I decided to pass them on to a friend of mine currently working on her Masters in Education so I could hear her perspective. Her name is Regina Millard. The following is her review:

In my past life I was a mental health counselor. Most moms’ have a past life. It was the life before scraping cheerios out of the cracks of your car, before spit up was an accessory with every outfit, before the books on your nightstand were limited to Curious George and Brown Bear. Over the years the books my children read have progressed from those board books they chewed on as babies to Magic Tree House books to the classics such as Roll of Thunder Hear My Cry and Where the Red Fern Grows. With this progression I was left with time on my hands and the notion that it was time to go back to work. Nothing in me could go back to working with chronically mentally ill adults. With great internal debate I made the choice to go into teaching.

So, I have given up every Saturday from 8-5 and a lot of time researching and studying and every day I worry. Did I make the right choice? Then it happened. Sitting in the theater I saw a preview for a movie that I thought answered my question: Waiting for Superman. I was certain it would assure me I had made the wrong choice. I was certain it would tell me how horrible teachers were and how the majority of them were failing their students. Even Obama made this inference in his inaugural speech when saying, “our schools fail too many.” A friend of mine a few weeks later asked if I would like to attend a showing of the new movie directed by Davis Guggenheim and stay for a question and answer session with the director. I was pleasantly surprised. I did not feel the documentary to be anti-teacher, but anti-union. It was anti- tenure for teachers. It seemed to equally mock republican and democratic politicians in their attempts to fix a “broken” system. It talked about charter schools and portrayed them in a highly positive light one second but then stated that 4 out of 5 charter schools are unsuccessful. It showed children and parents pinning all their hopes for their educational career on a lottery in which the big payout is entrance into a school better than the traditional public school option with odds of winning equally as low as winning the real lottery. I cried as the inner city children were not chosen.

The movie offered insight. It provoked debate. It provided information. What it didn’t provide was a solution. So, as the movie ended what did we do? We asked questions and looked to a movie director to answer the tough questions no one else has been able to answer. I was left with more questions than when I went in. What portion of student failure is placed on the teacher, what piece of blame does the system get and what piece does the student need to claim. I left the theater glad I had seen the movie and honestly confident, after seeing some really bad teachers (who in New Jersey are paid to not teach) that I am a good teacher. I know there are bad teachers out there. I am not blind to that idea. As I join the club of the under paid and over represented I do not feel the need to arbitrarily defend them. There should be accountability. There needs to be a balance of old teachers with experience and new teachers with enthusiasm (not that either one could not possess both qualities).

In the end I agree that as a parent I am taking the leap of faith that the movie talks about. As I leave my own children with adults (in public school) who will spend more waking hours with them than I do, I trust that they will understand that I am leaving with them the things I love the most, that mean more to me than anything else. They deserve the best, so give them that. As a future teacher, investing an insane amount of money that will take years to pay back, I have faith that I will have the skills and compassion to teach and not fail. I can’t fix the entire system. I personally can’t weed out who and what is failing our children. I can offer hope to my students that they can learn and achieve, and succeed. The system may be broken but they are not.

Since WAVA made this review possible, here’s a little blurb about what they do. There appear to be more options for school now than I was aware of:

**WAVA and K12 provide Washington students in grades K-12 the chance to learn in the ways that are right for them. Washington Virtual Academies is a tuition-free public school that uses the K¹² curriculum, which is accessed via an Online School (OLS) as well as through more traditional methods. Materials are delivered right to your doorstep—including everything from books and CDs to even bags of rocks and dirt for your child’s science experiment.

WAVA details:
• The award-winning K12 curriculum
• Support from highly qualified, state-certified teachers
• An active, supportive school community
Weekly opportunities to meet with other families
• Books, materials, and loaner computer system
• The chance for students to participate in their school district’s athletics and extracurricular activities

**Information provided by WAVA, not written by DaringYoungMom.com

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The Shock of Pajamas

I’m thinking notes in their lunches, pajama-themed bedtime stories, and labels sewn to the front of all their favorite clothes that read, “Temporary Clothing Unit – Pajamas will be worn during periods of sleep.”

[More pajama silliness@ Parenting.com .]

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Greener Grass

I am not staying on top of things.  I firmly believe that the grass will be greener and the house cleaner on the other side I’d the soccer season.

[Read more at Parenting.com]

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It Starts

I saw my breath when I took the kids to the bus this morning.

My name is Kathryn Thompson and I do not approve this message.

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Wanda Takes a Nibble

No one knows why Wanda went all Mike Tyson on Dan while we stood on the sidelines watching Laylee play soccer tonight. Everyone knows we’re glad that she did it a second time so I could take this picture. I mean, “WHAT?!”

I agree that Dan is tasty

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Huey Lewis and Batman

As we drive around town, Magoo, smart kindergartener that he is, shares the facts with me. Sometimes I get the idea he’s making the facts up as he speaks. He’s learning about the world and he wants to instruct others, share the knowledge and the love.

Sometimes he says things like, “Two plus four is totally six,” and then stares out the window with a big grin on his face.

Today we sat parked next to a soaking lawn in the U District, because cars are always stopped in the U District. It is always rush hour there. And he said, “You don’t really have to worry about wet grass.”

“What?”

“Well, you always worry about wet grass and other wet stuff and it’s really okay.” Here I think he must be referring to slugs and I resent him suggesting that I have a problem with wet things when my real issue is with muddy wet grass on my carpet and slime on my feet.

A little later on the drive the song Cruisin’ came on the radio with Huey Lewis and Gwyneth Paltrow. There’s a section of lyrics near the end of the song where they sing, “Baby let’s cruise. Let’s flow, let’s glide.”

Magoo is really conscious of lyrics and likes to interrogate me about them/ come up with explanations of what they mean.

Magoo: Why did they say, ‘We’ll glide?’ Because persons can’t glide.

Me: I’m not sure Buddy.

Magoo: The only one that can glide is Batman.

Pause.

Magoo: Because he’s got a glide suit. I mean, come on!

Longer pause.

Magoo: Batman’s not real, is he?

Me: I don’t think so.

Another long pause as he looks very serious.

Magoo: You know what? I bet that guy singing is Batman. THAT makes sense.

Me: So he’s just singing about how he’s going to put on his glide suit and go flying?

Magoo: Yeah. He’s totally Batman.

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